The Ultimate List (Revised)

Promise I won't post anything else today but I stumbled  upon The Ultimate List(see entry May 14 2006), thought it could be updated just a little. I do believe that I've met someone who meets most of my criteria, lol...

1. 1-2 children from previous relationship (s)
2. A believer in God’s word, the Trinity, and has accepted God as his personal savior
3. Actions agree with words/deeds
4. Average to mid-athletic stature
5. Between 5’10-6’5
6. Between the ages 27-35
7. Can change a flat tire, spark plugs or an oil filter if need be
8. Capable of passing the 3 T-Test: 1) puts the toilet seat down, 2) doesn’t put towels over the shower curtain, and 3) squeezes the toothpaste at the end and not the middle
9. Caramel to dark chocolate complexion
10. Culturally, politically and worldly aware
11. Enjoys all kinds of music (Old school R&B specifically)
12. Enjoys PDA—Public Displays of Affection
13. Family oriented and is open to having his own family one day
14. Has an awesome sense of humor
15. Has his own friends and will not insist that I like them all
16. Honest and will tell me when I’m wrong; also has no problem with admitting when he’s wrong
17. Isn’t a Mama’s Boy, closed-minded or misogynistic
18. Knows his Self-Worth
19. Legal employment
20. Likes going places and doing new things
21. Likes to play games– Scrabble, Monopoly, Jeopardy, Taboo, etc.
22. Likes to read and/or write
23. Likes to take things slow
24. Likes to watch porn but feels no need to star in his own
25. Lives alone or w/roommates; if still lives at home, it’s b/c of unique circumstances
26. Loves and KNOWS how to kiss
27. NOT a commitment phobic
28. NOT afraid to show his emotions
29. Not cheap
30. Respectful of my ability to think & reason
31. Social drinker
32. Some college, college graduate
33. Spontaneous
34. Thinks Napoleon Dynamite is funny as hell
35. Will let me hog the remote control
36. Will not make me watch football or baseball or some other sport that I don’t comprehend but is willing to explain them if I want to know
37. Will scratch my dandruff and oil my scalp
38. Willingness to talk about himself–his hopes, fears, past–but isn’t too cocky, arrogant or narcissistic (mild narcissism will do, I'm privy to it).