Thursday, December 29, 2005

Lessons that MUST be learned in relationships...


1. If I have ANY doubt in my mind about a man's character leave him alone.
This summer, I was introduced to what seemed to be "a nice guy" by a "friend" of a "friend"...He was cool-we shared the same taste in music, liked Scarface and he was cute (hella skinny, but still cute). He worked this crazy shift, so I would have to stay up later than usual to talk to him, but I found it worth it; our conversations were always intellectual, funny and worth my losing out on some sleep. We'd agreed to take things slow and thoroughly established that we were just going to hang out and be friends. BUT, there was something that just wasn't right about him and, at the time, I couldn't put my finger on what it was exactly. A month into purely kicking it, I found out what it was: he had a girlfriend. In the beginning, I had had doubts about actually taking the time to get to know him; he seemed too good to be true. Had I only gone with my first gut, I wouldn't have wasted the time that I did entertaining him and some of his crazy ideas (i.e. like R. Kelly is the GREATEST)...

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